For years, I let the idea that I used to be shy and introverted maintain me again. Whereas on the surface, I might need appeared like I used to be outgoing in some conditions, I used to be consistently second-guessing and psycho-analyzing every part I did… “Do they like me? Did I disappoint them? Ought to I’ve been extra outgoing or much less outgoing? Are they distancing themself from me? Did I do one thing?”
It was not till I confronted some large lies I used to be believing about myself and began understanding and believing how a lot I used to be liked by God that I used to be in a position to overcome plenty of my lifelong insecurity and begin strolling in confidence.
Understanding how a lot I used to be liked by God meant that I didn’t want to search out my value and validation in others. This allowed me to like way more freely, deeply, and wholeheartedly as a result of it was now not about what different individuals considered me.
On this episode, Jesse and I discuss what this transformation has meant, my dedication to open up our dwelling each single week for a whole yr, how this modified our lives, and the way I’ve shocked myself by changing into a lot extra extroverted the previous couple of years.
We additionally discuss two books we’re studying, a brand new group system for Child D’s medical provides, and a YouTube present Kierstyn loves.
In This Episode:
[00:33] We’re chatting all about how I grew to become extra extroverted.
[02:14] The group system that Jesse put collectively for Child D’s medical provides is saving our lives.
[05:32] Rachel and the Treeschoolers is saving my life as a result of Kierstyn loves it.
[07:16] I’m really listening to a ebook and studying a ebook as a result of I’ve had time to learn.
[09:41] Jesse remains to be studying The Devil’s Hand by Jack Carr.
[12:08] Would Jesse agree that I’ve turn into extra extroverted?
[13:43] I do nonetheless get “peopled out” and must recharge by being alone.
[16:14] Did insecurity drive her shyness and introversion?
[19:01] God needed to change my coronary heart in how I considered myself.
[21:10] You may’t say you’re or aren’t one thing in case you’ve by no means tried it.
[23:31] I’m not the shy and insecure individual I as soon as was as a result of I let go of these limiting beliefs.
[25:11] What limiting beliefs are you letting dictate your life?
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